shift.10 Opening Night

Students from across South Central Pennsylvania have arrived at Black Rock Retreat, in record numbers: 92 students from 7 campuses.  Students came with excitement and anticipation and were not disappointed by this first evening.  Betsy Staudt Willet led moving worship, Neil Livingstone brought the word from Luke 5, and students dove in getting to know each other across campuses in a lively open mic coffeehouse emceed by Nick Peterson.

All to begin digging into the question: how are you pursuing the good life?

Tonight, from Luke 5, we see a guy named Simon get interrupted by Jesus jumping into his boat, challenged by Jesus to take it deeper, and then find himself standing knee deep in fish.  How might Jesus be breaking out of all the boxes we put him in?  What boxes do I even have?  Where do I find myself?

Back to campus!

As you’re well aware, a new school year is upon us!  I’m amazed at what change happens between the early weeks of August and the end of the month.  Besides all the kids heading back to school, there were 50,000 undergrads across South Central PA heading to campus.  That’s like 90% of the city of Lancaster deciding to change work schedules and living arrangements within a two week window of each other.  It creates some chaos!

I remember back 11 years ago, to my first few days on a college campus.  I remember at the strange new rhythms of life, like leaving “home” (my dorm room) at midnight to wander across the quad to another dorm to see who was around to hang out.  In high school, no one I knew ever casually wandered around their neighborhood in the middle of the night looking for snacks and a chat.

And even though this mass migration occurs every year around this time, every late summer is a little different.  Again going back 11 years, I remember going through the campus activities fair to see all the various student groups, and everyone kept wanting my email address.  At that point, I was like 90% of other internet users and had an AOL account, but really email was a novelty, little more.  So I had no qualms about giving the address to anyone and everyone who asked, quickly signing up for about 2o clubs.  A few days later, in my first classes, my professors also wanted my email, promising that they’d be sending assignments…  That back-to-school season marked the introduction of email into my life, no longer as a novelty, but as a primary communication tool.

These changes in technology keep coming, marked in significant ways by a new school year.  My senior year of college, when we all arrived back on campus, suddenly everyone had a cell phone!  About five years ago, Facebook had some followers through the winter and spring, but it wasn’t until the fall back-to-school transition that almost everyone had an account.  We see hints of these changes coming over the summer, but they’re not fully manifested until a few weeks into the semester.  And so I ask and wonder–what will be new this year?

With the mass migration and the cultural changes, this can be a disruptive time for new students.  Purposefully so, this is the busiest time of the year for our InterVarsity staff and students.  As one staff wrote recently in an update:

Please pray with us, especially in these first few weeks of school, that the current students would reach out to the new ones, and that everyone on campus would have an opportunity to be connected to someone who is living out their faith and ultimately connected to God.

May it be so.

“I don’t want to grow up…”

A story of a witnessing community from Evan Smith, campus staff at York College:

“I don’t want to grow up…and college is a great place to not grow up!”

These words were at once saddening and beautiful to hear from one member of our Vision Team.  Saddening, because it is so true — college has, for many, become a context in which to put off responsibility for choices, to relax and just be “infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching by the cunning and craftiness of people.”  (Ephesians 4:14)

But it was also beautiful to hear because of the context — our Vision Team was beginning to share some of the fears and struggles they face looking at their calling for the upcoming year.  For this student, it was tempting to long for a time with no cares or responsibility, but also no influence or leadership for the renewal of the campus.  As she and others learned to share their fears openly with each other, I could almost see the bonds of community forming.  We prayed for her, and each other — “be strong and courageous” as Jesus leads on…

How were you changed at Sidewalks? Student Testimonies

Click here to see two Sidewalks 2010 talk about their experience this summer.

Looking back at Sidewalks 2010

The Sidewalks 2010 Urban Project ended yesterday after 6 weeks of life together in the Stevens neighborhood of Lancaster City.  Nine college students spent their summers volunteering at several urban agencies, playing with kids, chatting with neighbors, and figuring out how to manage cooking and keeping up a house.  Yesterday packed their bags, cleaned the house, and said goodbye to each other and to our neighbors.

What’s in a name?  Why Sidewalks?  I read an article in Newsweek a few years back entitled “Sidewalks make a neighborhood into a community.”  That’s the inspiration; that’s the hope.  We bring college students to live with us for a summer to learn how sidewalks perform that function.  It is a little abstract–how could slabs of concrete create intimacy among strangers?  And yet here in the city, in our neighborhood, that’s just what happens.  The slabs of concrete lead the way from home to another, from one porch to another, from one meal to another.  The slabs of concrete are linear parks where there are daily games of catch, opportunities to shoot hoops, linger in conversation, create art, jump rope, and on and on.  In all these ways and so many more, simple slabs of concrete create a connection and wholeness between people that is elusive in many other settings.

So, come to the city, come experience these slabs of concrete that connect us to each other, these sidewalks that make our community.  Come, and see how you might change.

Sidewalks Update (from Julia)

Hey friends and family of the Sidewalks team,

I wanted to take this opportunity to apologize for not keeping the blog updated. I know I promised my friends and family that I would take time each week to write on the blog and let you all know what was happening here. I hope you can forgive the rest of the Sidewalks team and I for not writing but I hope you can understand why this is not our top priority.

These past few weeks have been a time of intense growing. Many of us need time to reflect on the events of the day. We have been learning so much and encountering new ways of thinking that it can prove to be extremely overwhelming at times. Each day we are challenged to not just see from where we stand but instead place ourselves in another person’s shoes (a client, a co-worker, or another member of the Sidewalks team).

When we find ourselves unable to place ourselves in another’s shoes conflict usually arises. We have been learning a different way of conflict resolution. Instead of letting anger fester, we have been told to take the person aside who has hurt us and we talk it out. We explain why we are hurt and in the time of exchanging views we try to understand where the other is coming from and why they feel the way they do. This type of conflict resolution also prevents gossiping and getting third parties involved. I’ve found that this type is extremely healthy and I wish that conflict was always confronted in this way all the time and not just on this urban project. However this also takes lots of time but it is well worth the sacrifice.

I thank you all for seeing where we stand and want you to know that I’m sure there will be plenty of opportunities to share our experiences with you after Sidewalks is over. There are just so many things to share that typing them would not even give them justice. I can truly say that the Sidewalks team is taking this project seriously and putting their hearts and souls into it. I am astounded to hear and see what God is doing not just in the people in our workplaces and community, but also between each of the members of the Sidewalks team. I can’t even begin to fathom leaving here on July 20th because I have grown so close with my brothers and sisters here and really dread the idea of leaving. I hope that we can continue to share openly and deeply with each other after Sidewalks as we do during.

Peace and Blessings,
-Julia

Sidewalks: Week 1 Reflections (by Betsy)

The students of Sidewalks 2010

With a little over a week under our belts, we feel like we’ve taken in a month’s worth of experiences, teaching, and conversations.  Here’s a picture of the team (minus Bret and Betsy), followed by some of the things that have been most significant for the team:

  • Joe Manickam, who oversees the Mennonite Central Committee work in Asia spoke to us during orientation about mission.  If we are a Christian, we are a follower of Christ, which means we are a missionary.  Mission involves 3 things: crossing barriers, proclaiming the good news in word (10%), and proclaiming the good news in deed (90%).  Missional relationships are not about taking Jesus to the other side of a barrier, but seeing Jesus on the other side, already at work.  Will we be gutsy and cross over to him?  Joe challenged us to do the following things:
    • Don’t ask “how can I help you,” but “what is your problem,” and walk with people in their response
    • See Jesus as here already – here in the city, here in people’s lives, here at Arbor Place (teen center 4 of us work at), here at Water Street Ministries (health clinic and homeless shelter 5 of us work at)
    • Look for our own transformation
      • Listen and ask questions (vs. trying to provide answers)
      • Weep (let our hearts break for the city like Jesus)
      • Pray (be vulnerable to God)
    • Every day ask “how has God messed with my life today?”  Because if my life, my perspective, my understanding hasn’t been messed with, I haven’t crossed any barriers, and so am not being missional.
  • We watched Gran Torino, a powerful film about an old white man who gets to know his Hmong neighbors, with many moving results. We discussed ways the film reflects our earlier study of Philippians 2.  And we looked at examples in the film of the two different ways to approach cultural differences.  An open, sensitive, trusting approach makes it much easier to respond well to the misunderstandings and fear raised by the differences than a suspicious, inflexible, or superiority-complex approach.
  • We have had so many deep conversations as a house community and in smaller groups.  After only a few days we were sharing things it normally takes much longer to feel comfortable saying.  One person described these conversations as mental rehab – we’ve been processing and praying about our family baggage, relationships, and sexual pasts.  Healing has been flowing!
  • After only 3 days of volunteering, the Arbor Place team was starting to lose their hearts to some of the kids they’re working with.  But they also heard about how 75% of the kids are unlikely to make it out of their tough situations.  The excitement for the kids but pain for their situations resulted in confusion and swirling feelings about how to respond, and what will their involvement actually help, etc.  Lots of stuff to wrestle through – genuinely caring, not making their pain about us, having radical hope, not being tied up in results, putting aside our “we’re here to accomplish something” mindsets and taking up the “we’re here to be a part of what God is doing” perspective.  The following thing also helped us make sense of this:
  • Last night we watched the Mother Teresa documentary.  Seeing her love and care, sacrifice and obedience overwhelmed us.  After the film we went straight into prayer.  Part way through our prayer time we were so distracted by a big fight going on outside on the other side of the street.  We could hearing lots of yelling, and a couple little kids crying/screaming.  We switched to praying for God’s peace and love to overcome them.  And actually the neighborhood got quiet soon after.